Why seduction and relationships are harder during the holidays

It seems that many players have a harder time with pick up and relationship managment during the holidays. In the past I usually got rid of my rotation to avoid drama, buying gifts etc… But, I usually notice a drop in my results specially on clubs for the exception of 26th of December and the 31st (which is after hallowing, spring break, memorial day etc…) one of the best times to pick up, but other than that is pretty bad…. Clubs pretty much dead or full of dick. The first time i had my first mental masturbation moment was with this post by warped mindless back in the days, which open my eyes:

*shivers*

Its that time of year where I, and many other people live…its Boyfriend season, also known as winter!

Winters get cold where I live (Northern United States) and every year right around this time (Fall, starting to get cold) I notice a trend, EVERYONE starts to hook up. My theory is because when it gets cold, people don’t feel like going out as often. They just wanna stay in, snuggle up with another warm body, sip of hot coco and watch the current hit romantic comedy. Nothing wrong with that and i’m even a bit of the same way.

October is fall around here and just starting to get cold. This is when most people start hooking up. By the end of November almost everyone that can get someone, and that’s wants someone, has someone.

This is why this time of year is the hardest time of the year to hook up. Women are still in that “honeymoon phase” here being with her guy is still new and exciting. She hasn’t yet had time to discover how much of a chode he is yet. Also, I like most people don’t really like the cold and it usually takes me a while for my body to get used to it enough where I wanna go back out multiple nights a week.

Every year I pretty much do the same thing. If what I have described above then the following is something you way wish to consider doing yourself.

I usually let any fuck buddies I have go and stay with my primary at the time until about February. Up until then I’ll still go out but not often, usually only twice a week compared to 5+ night a week during the summer. When February hits I’m usually pretty well adjusted to the cold and I start going out a little more. By now I may have a fuck buddy again if I feel like it. From here I get more and more active until summer hits.

So, what can you do if the whole winter scenario describes your suitation but you don’t have a GF or any fuck buddies?

The problems we have is that your not going to feel like going out as much, that the women who are single wont even feel like going out as much, and the women who arnt single will be harder to get plus they also wont be going out as much.

So how will you meet women now?

The solution is to turn to your social circle. But forgetting about that for a second we also have online game. Dating sites and social networking sites such as Facebook and MyYearBook are now a great solution to finding women.

Have fun, bundle up, and enjoy the winter

Now i am in South Florida (no winter for you geniuses) but a lot of women like to spend the holiday and visit family with a boyfriend or somebody… It is important to them, remember social programming and media has a lot to do with that… Me and my main got about 20 cards from different couples and some of the cards bragging about how awesome was the year in their life and relationship (of course we know better).

here is another dude with the same coincidence:

Has anyone noticed girls becoming extremely scarce and exponentially flaky during the holiday season?

I’ve seen almost zero online and offline activity for about a month; and it doesn’t seem to be looking up.

Online: No visitors to my profile.

I’ve had three girls in the span of a week flake/cancel on a first date within the hour/within the same day, then not write back when I asked for a reschedule a few hours/a day later (when ordinarily they’d write right back)

The bars are dude fests!

Does anybody else see this? (more to come later, in a hurry and will add more)

here is warped mindless on online and Christmas:

Back during the warm summer months I was getting 3 – 5 matches every day. Now that its super cold and the holidays Ive been getting around 3 a week. Just wondering if anyone else has also been experiencing this? I’m guessing its normal.

here is a seducer by the name of blackdragon:

As I’ve said many times,

If you live in North America, don’t do any online game (and Tinder counts!) after about November 15th.

Response rates plummet to near-zero during December and late November. During the holidays forget about online dating and focus on something else.

On Jan 2nd response rates shoot back up again. That’s when you should hit it hard (Go Time).

This year with the weekend falling where it is, I would wait until Monday the 5th before resuming online game. But I promise you, next week response rates will be great, and will stay great until April/May.

The other problem is not only pick up but relationship management. My main for example has tried to break up with me about 3 times around the 20th of December to the 5th of January (just lol i realize this by looking at this post which i created a year ago in a forum but never did a blog on it). I am the same dude, same relationship, same behavior. But, she finds one reason or another to dump me, of course she gets back with me minimum 15 minutes to max a day.

I am not the type of guy who likes to point fingers, but when I press her on the issue, there is nothing really major to break up about. I mean we have gone through 1000 times worst stuff, in comparison to the reasons she says she wants out.(this year mini break up were she got back with me after 15 minutes,  while i was looking for “rentals” just lol)

Now I am not the only one getting dump, look at this scientific chart on peak break up (double click the image for larger view):

But fuck, women are so fucking stress and/or depress during this season is not even funny, in part for the lack of achievement and high expectations… Again I have never seen my main so stressed out, about family, gifts, money, depression,the state of the relationship, her parents divorce, her grandfather dying, god, and all these other crazy shit! out the blue… Actually caught me by surprised… (this is referring to last Christmas mini break up)

here is from some religious site out of all places:

is it common to get depressed over the holidays? This is supposed to be a season of joy and happiness, but I don’t feel it. What can I do about it?
Advice: Many people suffer from bouts of depression or the blues at different times during the year. During the holiday season people encounter memories of loved ones they have lost through death or divorce or friends who have moved away.People experience stress and difficult family reunions over the holidays. Depression is a growing problem. In fact, psychologists have said that we live in an “age of depression.”
There are many causes for this mood disorder. Reasons for depression range from grief, divorce, major changes, lack of sunlight or physical exercise, a general disappointment with life or friends, low self-worth, relationship, spiritual or anger problems, false beliefs about life and God, trauma from the past, deficiency of neurological chemicals and more.

I want to ad some theories: Overspending money, gain in weight, More people everywhere like roads, stores etc… Consumption of foods that are bad for you and conductive to mood changes, and yeast infections(all that sugar and shit), flue season, some industries slow down and cut hours or lay off people (for example housing and Real Estate).