First, an opener is when you interact and engage a total stranger could be a girl, guy, couple, group etc….
Now there are different types of openers such as:
Opinion openers.- These openers were popularized by the book The Game by Neil Strauss. Example.- Hey quick question what do you think of guys wearing skinny jeans? Wait for an answer… But, don’t they look kind of gay? (I used to use this one when skinny jeans came out and were not as popular as they are now).
Direct openers.- This is kind of random, but I thought you look attractive wanted to come say hi and see if your looks match your personality.
Situational openers.- Just talking about whatever is going on. For example, As you are waiting in line for a pizza, doesn’t nick has the best pizza ever, i think i only come out clubbing as an excuse to come to nicks.
None Verbal openers.- Engaging with strangers for the first time without saying a word. Most dance floor game involves none verbal openers. Example check out my video on dance floor openers (boy was I fat and dressed like shit there)
Ok guys, now that we explaied the different type of openers and examples on how i have used them in the past, here I am going to tell you some high % openers that I have been using with success lately, some are kind of out there, but they FUCKING WORK NIGGAS!
Off dance floor:
1.- How is your night going? (credit a seducer that goes by Bachaus)
2.- This one is cringe but it works.- Face palm, because for years i fought rsd guys on how retarded it was…… You will GENTLY TAP on shoulder, I do 2 GENTLE taps, I SAID GENTLE RIGHT.. I get her attention and open….. Never to be done when she has already noticed you, in other words no face to face, but her to giving you the side or her giving you the back, after you get her attention you open…. Example.- As I am in some part of the club off the dance floor and she is talking to friends or listening to friends, kind of distracted, I tap her in the shoulder twice, once I get her attention, I say “hi you seem interesting had to come say hi and meet you, I am skills, how is your night going? blah blah blah….
3.- If she is eating something unhealthy (which is usual after clubs)…. Wow that looks really good/yummy specially for the diet, has good carbohydrates, tons of protein, and simple sugars. (This I kind of stole from the Hodge twin when they go to fast food eating junk and rationalizing their choices)
4.- Those are some bad ass shoes (if she has some cool shoes), Is nice to see women that have a sense of style, most women in Palm beach don’t know how to dress they wear sandals and shit, by the way i am skills, what is your name again.(If she does not offer her name).
5.- If she has a super sexy outfit.- I say “shit i was gonna wear that tonight”.
Now lets go to my specialty which is the dance floor game:
Use this when they play Latin beats such as: regetton, latin music and the likes such as “despasito”…. Most guys specially my wings, which is embarrassing and pisses me off, since they are with me 24/7 suck at opening they usually verbalize “you want to dance” face palm, or grab the girls hand and they yank it away, which destroys their social proof and of course it affects me, guilt by association.
Note.- Randy aka Cuban Jacket I hope you are reading this!
What you will do is do the shimmy which is you will move your shoulders fast side to side 3 times as you bend over forward up to 45 degrees as your doing it, I will post a video showing it, but THE DIFFERENCE is that i suggest that as you do it you bend bit forward this will force an approach invite and for me 99% of the time receptive, then you are dancing and you are in.
Advance.- If you already reached the hook point (point of interaction were the girl wants you to stay) you may take a risk and grab her head with your hands and do the shimmy while you bring her head to your men breast. Again, risky 1 out of 5 don’t like it 4 love it. (remember guys the Russian girl, she hated it). Here is the video showing it:
2.- Ehhhhh, is a hip hop type of sheer that if you go to clubs, you may have heard girls and some dudes yell, when someone dances really good.
3.- The Floss.- This dance was created by the backpack kid, a lot of young kids do this, but I think I brought this shit to clubs (yes i credit myself). Since i started doing it, now everybody at the clubs wants to do it… This is a really good and opens well, women also will try to ask you how to do it, and creates the teacher and student dynamic aka attraction from the girls part.Here is a video tutorial on how to do it (took me 2 hours to learn this stupid shit). Remember guys dance floor dances have the goal to force an approach invite (even if subtle pre-opening):
Out niggas!
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