How to seduce Milfs (mothers i like to fuck) and cougars

First, lets educate ourselves on what is a milf:

“Mother I’d Like (to) Fuck”

mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. Just cuz their moms doesn’t mean that they don’t need a spark in their love life. If they’ve ever breastfed,they have really responsive nipples and a core of erectile tissue in their breasts. The ones in good shape have worked at regaining control over their vaginas (Kegel exercises).MILFs are usually real careful about birth control, they know accidents happen but they take responsible steps. They want to fuck with abandon, with no romantic complications for their under-19 family. 
A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.

 

Cougar

An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity — particularly the true hotties — as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together.

That cougar I met last night, showed me shit I didn’t know existed, I’m going back for more.

So who are these women and key differences from other younger women:

1.- These women have more life experiences, good and bad:

* Some come from a failed marriage and are now divorce.- Usually they do the dumping after years of working hard for the relationship and giving the hubby/boyfriend multiple opportunities. They usually stay longer than usual in the marriage cause, they had kids with the man, social/family repercussions , finances(2 covering expenses vs. one covering expenses) etc…

Now after the divorce they are going through a stage of a bit of Average frustrated Bitch chump. So they really don’t know what they are doing, they have not been in the game for long. So usually the first dude they meet, they assume is the “replacement”, but of course they are needy they get fucked and dumped. After couple of times of this happening they kind of “get it” how it works after years of not being in the field.

Some of them go into a second cock carousel stage (rotation of dicks). But then they grow tired of it and are looking for a boyfriend/provider/husband.

2.- How are they biologically

These women are super super super horny. Did i say they are super horny. My theory is that the body is screaming “we are running out of time to have kids hurry up and get some dick”. If you go into any reality porn type sites you can see how many of these women, are doing some of the craziest shit!. Like gang bangs, gloryholes, cuckhold, swinclub,dodging etc… They are going through a middle life sex crisis. Plus, since they are older they know what they want sexually, are more upfront sexually and more aggressive sexually. Sex sex sex sex, is on their mind, they have toys, they watch porn, they go on the break and masturbate in the work bathroom, they have a collections of toys etc….

3.- Who do they want in their life.

These women are a bit delusional, they want a hot guy, with money, with a nice ride, a provider, a prince charming. Their requirements are super high, even though the market value specially compare to younger hotter girls is almost none existent. Second problem, there is a small segment of successful over 33 women who are practically a dude, too much masculine energy after dealing with a hubby beta for years and taking the role of the man. A good example of what most of these women want, it is the dude of 50 shades of Grey, Christian Grey. (Best seller among women). With this being said they will fuck a hot, muscular player type for fun.

4.- Some of the women still married or in a relationship, but just roommates, marriage is dead, on or the way out in these cases you need to sub-communicate:

a.- Re-assured them you understand.
b.- You don’t judge.
c.- You don’t kiss and tell.
d.- you show that you are just a lover and you are not planning or encouraging her to leave the marriage.
e.- You are not a clinger, stalker or have potential to become a clinger or stalker.

5.- Most of these women are a bit traumatized with “scare tissue”:

* they have been fucked and dump.

*cheated on.

* emotionally and physical abused.

* heart broken
*raped
*abortions
*slut shamed

 *depress

*low self esteem.

6.- A lot of these women have a bit of insecurities.

* they are getting old
* they are not as hot as they use to be.
* they have gained some weight .
*no man in their life, other than guys that want to be fuck buddies, or the ones that want to take them serious are guys they are not attracted to (the typical overcompensating nice guy/beta). In other words they want to date up.

7.- Some put their kids first and look for a guy that will not interfere with the kids.

Ok, so now that we know the market and we have done the marketing analysis, we need to see how we are going to attack this demographic making a marketing plan, that will allow us to get laid. So I am going first to quote one of my favorite seducers tva oslo/teevester:

“Lover VS Provider” Theory By Teevester aka Tva_oslo:

Women are seeking two types of mates – call it different providers. Consider sex being a trade, what you are trading for the sex defines what kind of provider you are. The men women are seeking who are confident, independent, attractive having a lot of women chasing them are called “sex providers” – this is the man women finds sexually attractive – the man who women would like to have sex just for the sake of having sex. These men are often behaving sexually toward women, making themselves being perceived as sexual beings – sex providers. This type of men is usually called “alpha males” or “lovers” in community lingo. Important to point out, these men are trading sex for sex. However, these are a minority – whereas the majority of men are providers of anything else of women’s needs such as social value, material goods, emotional support and so on. These men will trade something else than sex in for having sex with a woman. As a matter of fact this type of providers tend to get sex from being in relationships with women.

Now you might ask why is that a problem? Well whenever a woman gets “too attracted to you” in ways that are not purely sexual (-i.e. not perceiving you as lover/sex provider), women will tend to act in very pure and a-sexual way toward those men – she will start expressing purity. This is because she feels more attractive when ever she acts non-sexual toward men and feels unattractive when she is behaving too sexually or promiscuous. Women in fact believe we men do not like women who are sexually open – as they are very familiar with the complex many men have which is called “the Madonna/whore” complex.

Now with these women you want to come across as a lover first and foremost, with the possibility of provider / future boyfriend second, here is uncle walker explaining it better:

One of the things that has worked for me was a suggestion from Franco years ago. he called it the Prince from Afar. It is kind of the overarching principle of the interaction; the mega frame. I try to keep myself a little out of reach. I can be fascinated by her life and all about her but I am always going to be climbing back on my stead and riding off to my life far away when we are done. I can’t come up with things that I really say right off but I try to portray myself with things that will keep my life and hers from meshing to a point of happily ever after or that sort of thing.
I want to look like royalty but not like a King that will come here to rule her world. As I think about it this might be more important with an on going relationship than the initial seduction but it a part of what I do especially with older women right from the start.

Ok, so how i seduce these women:

1.- For me humor/fun/subtle sex works, now i am not a 24 for hour clown, but i combine humor with serious topics as well. Now this is my personality, you do not have to have humor, but you need to show who you are and your core personality.

2.- I am a bit physical right out of the get go, but it is a sensual type, sexy physicality. However, i am in a club type environment, by the time i get their number, they want me sexually. I disagree with all the other seducers that  advice  on not being physical with this demographic, but they usually meet the women online, so i do understand, and i agree with them, in those situations it may be different. With this being said, the ones i met online when i used to do online, i did long type exchanges, contrary to the community text to meet. Long texting is not efficient from the phone, so find a way to text or go back and forth online from the COMPUTER, we want to be efficient. here is by my friend sexaddict

“I use text game as a very important part of my game and each individual seduction. I use it as a tool to gauge my potential target sexually, to open her up and to gauge where she stands as far as her sexual prowess as well as sexual interest towards me.My theory behind this is women will open up much easier through this form of communication, they don’t have to worry about their physiological response like they would in person if you asked a bold sexual question ( blushing, head tilting, overwhelming flushing, etc etc) They have time to respond, and can think before they react. In my experience an overall more comfortable setting for the woman to be open in general.90% of the women i successfully seduce,( past several years) have completely opened up to me sexually via text. It has made my seductions so much easier.

I know where they stand sexually and can plan my seduction accordingly.A majority of the women that open up sexually will easily commit and send racey photo’s of themselves as well. I can’t even count how many times this has happened. My cell phone is jammed with photo’s of women in their nighties, langerie, etc etc.My theory behind Sexting, is that it allows me to gauge her sexual interest as well as establish sexual tension before we ever meet up. This in turn creates sexual association. She associates me with sex, so when she does come to hang out with me, sex or sexual contact is implied. And because women are emotion based, they tend to live in their minds, getting to them aroused through this form of communication allows the woman to create her own vision of the two of you being sexual. Even if it doesn’t turn out how she envisioned it, the fact of the matter is that she did envision it, and getting in her head is half the battle.Here’s the thing though, the girls that don’t open up, or are extremely hesitant become back shelf, in other words, if they don’t open up to me the way I want them too, I generally will not even bother hanging out with them.”

3.- Usually, at high point of buying temperature(i will know by a hint or subcommunication), i will ask them to invite me over for a movie, I do this in order to find an excuse, so they do  not feel like sluts. If they usually agree, they just said yes to sex. In the meeting day, i do not flirt or bring sexual topics. Usually when i arrive at their apt. usually she is a bit uncomfortable for the first 10-15 minutes, so i give her the space, or ask her to show me her apt. and comment on stuff i see in the apt. Then we sit there to watch a movie, after a little bit into the movie i start massaging, normal, then sensual, then sex.

4.- Some stuff that has worked for me with these women are:

1.- Showing genuine interest in their kids, asking about their kids, remembering the age,names and hobbies.

2.- Subcommunicating that i have my life together, but changing the topic fast when trying to early frame you into provider, or talking about women i am seeing etc..

3.- Following number 2, polarizing when putting you into provider territory and if they want to delay sex.

ex of rebuttals (barely ever need to use them, i don’t get much if any resistance to sex): 1.- I  look for 3 things, personality, looks and sexual performance. it does not make a different if i fuck you fast or fuck you a year from now, it does not change my opinion on who you are. However, for me is important to get sex out of the way to see if we are sexually compatible.

ex. 2(again i never have to resort to this).- I do not do dinners, for me is not sexy watching a girl eat, they order a salad, and say “i am watching my weight”, is boring and awkward, and what everybody else does… Everybody is fake and on their best behavior, sorry but i don’t do dates. I rather for us to go dancing or watch a movie is more fun and real blah blah.

ex. 3- I do not settle i date, most people settle, i look for 3 things personality, looks and sexual performance. Most people do not know who the other person is till 6 months into the relationship, most people are in their best behavior and settle. I do not settle i date, and if i like you and you meet what i am looking for then, i am exclusive.

4.- These women love relationship type chick crack mental masturbation and psychology talk. When they talk crap about exes, hubbies etc… I take the opportunity to bring out what he did wrong, and what she did wrong. I become a mini Oprah or Dr. Phill and mental masturbate with theories, they love that shit, at this point it helps with attraction as well and secret society credentials.

5.- They know fast if they are gonna fuck you or not.

Some other keys mentioned by me in other blogs:

“Be supportive of her decision of her divorce, break up and marriage trouble( A lot of them still married but on the way out). You do this by showing her that you get her, and what mistake the husband or ex is doing/did and how would you have handle it, give good marriage couple advice(bd/tb/$m style kind of, but not to the extreme). Some people say rightly not to talk about the exes, but I have found out is a good strategy that works well for me.”
Be very physical and very persistent but a bit more sensual/subtle protecting her social proof all the time.

Complement her age by saying stuff: “omg you look like you are 28, i would have never guessed you were 35”. A lot of them insecure about their age and looks, you can exploit that.(these women more into working out than any other demographic cause they know they are getting old)

Try to set up a sexual encounter instead of a courtship date, they will go for it, follow my advice here.

Get them to open up sexually and try things they never tried before.( I took many of these women to swing clubs as first dates)

Shit! almost forgot, they are private detectives, they will Google you on the net, looking to find out what do you do, if you have records, if you been married, they will investigate you specially if they have kids.