People assume that you have to be a total loser and give up your work and school to go clubbing. Now in this post I will show you how to mix your professional or school life with the clubbing lifestyle.
I have been able to be an employee, own multiple businesses, have successful relationships etc… while clubbing. My success and failures in businesses and relationships have little to nothing to do with going clubbing, but more to do with outside factors that have nothing to do with nightlife.
I will tell you what are some things you need to do in High school, College and Work to be able to balance it with your club life that have worked for me.
First, if you are going to high school, I would advice to save your partying for the weekends. In other words study hard on the weekdays and party hard on weekends specially Fridays and Saturdays, leave Sundays to schedule dates from the girls you are talking too and/or seeing.
If you are in College, schedule your college classes for Monday – Thursday. Go clubbing Thursday nights which is college nights (best time to go out if you are in college). On Fridays (which is a bit of slow nights) go out with women that you are talking to or pursuing (Fridays is usually date night in USA), with that being said I had a lot of success clubbing on Fridays, though again,it is a slow night. On Saturdays go clubbing again, which is usually the busiest night of the week. Finally, on Sundays again spend it with either a main or fuck buddy or new girl prospects.
Now make adjustments based on your city or country and the dynamics of clubs in your neck of the woods, I was specifically talking about South Florida in the USA.
But skills what about work?
Good question, When you are in high school and college try to work during the week part time, no more than 3 hours a day and/or which is what I recommend work on the weekends in the day time 8 hours (Saturday and Sunday that is). I know you will hate me for this, but try to stay home till you finish school if you are low middle class or poor. If you are high midle class or rich and your parents have pre-paid school stuff, go ahead and live on campus. But again, my recommendation for everybody is to avoid debt and stay at home as long as possible.
Most important part learn game, so you do not have to spend money when dating women (max 10-20 dollars), specially in college.
What if you are an adult, I will confess that a lot of my success in seduction and club game as an adult, came from the fact that I was self-employed. Being self-employed helps a lot with seduction due to the amount of freedom it allows. With that being said I have also had multiple corporate jobs. So what is the key, limit your clubbing time to twice a week, either Fridays and Saturdays. Or Thursdays and Saturdays. You can even push to Thursday, Friday and Saturdays, but it will lead to burn out and may affect your work, but I have been able to do it, with 0 consequences in my professional life.
Following the above points, do not drink, for all the reasons I mentioned in my post alcohol and drugs when it comes to club game.
Finally, the main thing with success in game is CONSISTENCY. I have been able to go out consistently for more than 20 years, and again it is a myth from bloggers and coaches that do not have much experience in club game to straw man by talking crap on how you can not be successful doing both.
The part of my life when I made the most money I was going out at least 4-5 times a week while barely working, on the other hand, the part of my life were I worked the most and club the least (twice a week), I made the least amount of money (at least 5 times less). My point is, there is no correlation with professional Success and clubbing. In other words there are successful guys that club and work, and there are losers that club a lot, drink and do drugs and do not work or work a lot and are not as successful. This has nothing to do with clubbing and more to do with the individual doing the clubbing and his/her level of responsibility, industry, market factors etc….
So the next time you hear a blogger that sells an “online product” or a”day game product” or selling some other self interest telling you “I am a successful professional I do not want to be running around in clubs cause of it, do online game” or some other crap, consider the source and the why is he saying what he is saying (Usually people that have none to limited success in clubs talking crap).
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