The most effective way to date (The 3 bounce method)

Before reading this Blog I highly recommend you read the post on how to set up a second encounter were I cover my take on dates (for seducers dates mean pipi in vagina) and how to set them up properly.

I have been the worst of the worst in the history of dates (I have never been good at “dates/encounters” in fact I am the worst of the worst, I am a high energy guy).

Clubs are good cause you can pull right away or at least have a really strong interaction (pull means taking a girl home), if I did not pull,I have gotten around that with long texting /sexting, in other words setting sexual frames via text, but a lot of girls do not allow it and sometimes is not enough anyways.

Recently, as the physical type club game is not as a strong as It once was back in the days, I had to learn to date… Second, experimenting with online game forced me to learn how to date as well. I made huge mistakes over and over and over until  I finally got it right.

Mystery talks about venue changes as a technique to make the girl feel like she knows you for ever and shorten the period that he things takes the average people to have sex which is 7 hours.

So this is one technique that I use, and there is a seducer called hey lover that seems to use it as well with success:

1.- Neutral low key meeting place.-

Such as a Starbucks, Dunking Donuts, a pizza place, even a MacDonald (it really does not matter just make sure is below your average dating place)…. So she does not think you are a loser, say just to “meet and greet, we go somewhere else from there”…

Please make sure the 3 locations are strategically within walking distance, for example downtown places, that have a close beach/park nearby… In this Location she will be skeptical, nervous, weird, in her head and the likes. Sit there and just handle the awkwardness for the first few minutes…

You can say things such as: “nice to finally meet you” “ did you make it ok”, blah blah any ice breaker, do you want anything to drink most of the time they say no, I would advise you get a drink (such as coffee or tea or whatever) so it forces you to sit down and finish it there for a little bit… Be comfortable with the awkwardness, act neutral, in a way she does not know or is not sure via body language and verbal talk, if you are into her or not. If the girl is talkative let her be the one that talks and always finish answering a question with a question… If she is not talking, handle the conversation for a little bit in a way that show you are attractive.

2.- Bounce to a cooler type location.-

This could be a lounge, bar, small club, band show, It also could be a part of the park, beach that is less isolated.
In this location you will increase your kino/touch/escalation from 0 to 5 gradually as you get compliance… Same with flirty, verbal talk were you show you are cool, you get some compliance, you may do light sex talk etc… Here she is a bit more relax, not that guarded, but in her head she still does not know if she will fuck you or not.

3.- pre-sex location

Beach, park, almost complete isolation but pre sex location.

Here the kino will stay the same or increase, a bit of bubble (both of you in your own world the feeling of connection), I would use here second generation verbals inspired by cosy ( a big mistake is to think you need all the things I will mention ahead, you don’t, but you will get a super strong closing if you do, and why not is easy to cover all those aspects).

1.- She needs to know that you won’t judge her as a slut or a whore for going home fast with you.
2.- She needs to know you are sexually competent, in other words that you are good in bed.
3.- She needs to know she will be safe. Since you are much stronger than her and you have the ability to harm her physically.
4.- She needs to know you are not going to use her, aka fuck her and tell her to get the fuck out making her feel like shit. (Most false rape accusations happened due to this)
5.- She needs to know that you will not be a clinger, stalker or super needy after sex and pushy before sex.

The above are some of the issues that if not covered, may not allow you to get laid…My go to method to destroy all these issues, it is broken down in detail here 

Of course after the 3 bounces the final location is the closing location (yours/her house, motel, hotel etc…)

One more issue that may cost problems is her self image, hygiene, life situation, period (working in the morning super early, kids and the likes)….

For example, I fucked a girl that looked like Kim Kardashian in her prime (yes I know most of the girls I say look like Kim, due to that Is my personal type, big butt girls), the seduction took a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooot of time about 3 hours me getting her to open up dealing with anti slut defense (which for me unusual) etc…

The reason which I had no idea till I saw her naked is that she had the bi pass stomach reduction (second girl I fucked with the by pass that look so hot with clothes on, but disgusting naked)

So with clothes on she was 8 or 9 without clothes a disgusting 5.

I did a mercy fuck in the middle of sex, I pull her out and say I can not do this you are my friend… (thanks god I disqualify myself in the seduction process saying I want a friendship and no sex)

Another girl I did not fuck had the period and I ended up fucking her doing a 3 some with her tomorrow. But she never told me this and her actions were in congruent which is why I did not do a same night lay, but I fucked her after I talk about her here.

If you look at a lot of the tales from the club and tales from online game they all have an element of the 3 bounce method.

Niggaz as always if you do what I tell you, exactly how I tell you to do it, YOU WILL GET LAID.

Out!