I used to disqualify and avoid dating women with kids aka milfs, please read this blog (one of my top blogs were it teach you how to game them). I would automatically put them in the Fuck buddy/ disposable girl group. But but but, as I have gotten older and dated more and more women with kid/kids…. It seems that they seem to be better for dating in some cases and have some advantages. Of course, they will have the disadvantages as well.
So in this blog post I will explain some of the advantages and disadvantages that dating a milf presents.-
Advantages
1.- More affection, more level of attention.- I suspect this is due to having kids make them less selfish, nurturing and caring that women with no kids.
2.- More sexual appetite and freakishness.- Most of these women were in some type of long term relationship with a beta husband and/or were to busy raising kid/kids that now they are willing to open up and explore what they missed out sexually with a specific dude such as a lover/seducer.
3.- Less pressure to get married. – Usually they were married and now they are divorce, so this is good for guys like us that want to avoid marriage at all costs, since they clearly experienced that marriage is obsolete and does NOT WORK, for attractive people. (For unattractive people, old people,religious nuts and low sex drive people it works in extremely few cases).
4.- Less to no pressure to have kids.- Usually they have experienced having kids and they usually know what a headache and how expensive that is, in most cases.
5.- For some reason less money issues.- My mental masturbation I assume that having kids put more pressure for them to achieve financial/career goals, plus they get child support and alimony from their beta exes.
6.- Less pressure to move in together. – Usually women with kids since they have kids are not in a rush like most women to move in together and they usually like their independence.
7.- A lot more freedom if you leave apart. – Since they will be busy with the kids so you can do pick up, see other girls etc..
8.- A lot of them heavy into look maxing and fitness.- They know they have baggage and they are competing with younger/hotter women (though I am as of now more attracted to older than younger, this will happen to you eventually, unless you skip the life stage of banging younger women, like most white divorced seducers, i called them the peter pan syndrome dudes. )
9.- Most of them will cook for you, do your laundry and do favors.- Again the nurturing taking care of people side is stronger than women with no kids, of course all women do shit like that for me, but they are more into taking care of you, specially if they have a Latin, European, Middle eastern, South African background. With white American women it is hit and miss.
Disadvantages
1.- Can get needy/clingy/stalkerish/psycho very easily in some cases. Oh boy! trust me dudes, they can go nuts, specially the Latin ones.
2.- If they get prego you are fucked. No matter how much you game them to have an abortion, they will not have it, trust me guys the odds to sell them on that are very slim even for a dude like me.
3.- The kids will always be put first. Which is fine if you do open relationships or are a seducer or are busy. (So this disadvantage could be an advantage)
4.- Travel constraints. If you like to travel WITH A GIRL, I don’t give a shit about traveling with a girl, then they are horrible for you
5.- Societal and family embarrassment.- You are with a girl with kids? omg that is bad blah blah…. This can be avoided if you are not a social media whore, and you do not discuss it with your family.
6.- If your goal is to one day to get married and have kids I would avoid them; However, if you want to get married and no kids, it could work. I doubt the seducers/lovers that read my blog give a shit about marriage or kids, so perfect for you guys. Condoms, condoms, condoms, did I say condoms, if they get prego again your ARE FUCKED. If you do not like to wear rubbers, please avoid them at all costs.
For me at this stage, I am welcoming more and more milfs, cause i am not into traveling, I am busy, I do not want kids or get married….
So for me they have been great…
Out!
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