One of the girls I recently seduced has fallen madly in love with me (Tale report on the works). The main thing I did during that seduction is an old disqualifier technique that I developed when I was with my then 10 year main and I have used successfully ever since.
What I do is that while interacting with the new women I am messing with or even potential prospects, when the subject of dating and relationships comes up, I take the opportunity to talk about screening and how they should go ahead and date different guys and place them into the nothing, future boyfriend possibility, lover, friend etc… Besides, I tell them that women biggest problem is not managing expectations correctly due to not placing guys in the right slot, which causes them problems in the future blah blah blah.
Here is a sample convo:
women(or you) should date multiple guys and get a feel for the guy, diversification, and get rid of the guys that you know are not good…
so you know a dude that you see future potential put him in the future boyfriend possibility box.
a guy that is hot and fun put him in the friends with benefit box. (Of course they know i am talking about myself)
a guy that you have no attraction for but is cool to hang out with, a friend.
a guy that is a creeper a nothing blah blah blah..
The reason I say new women is cause of the frame, and retention.
Sometimes they go “are you really saying i should date other men? aren’t you scare of losing me?”
And I always say: “I have seen what there is out there, so I encourage competition and for you to date other dudes, cause that way when you are with me you will love me that much more”
For the psychology on why that works read my post on exaggerated positive projection.
This is an easy way to kind of disqualify yourself from being with them. Also it subcommunicates that you are a lover, no judgmental, sexually open, secret society dude.
What will happen when you do this, is that they will try harder to qualify themselves, and try harder for me to like them.
Now when I discovered this, I was not using it as a technique, I used it for real (since I had a main). But, it is an extremely powerful weapon, and flip the script and puts them in a chasing mode.
Please make sure that you are not bluffing, you really have to feel that way, or at least sell it right.
For the tldr, encourage them to date multiple guys… Make sure they do not think you are shit testing, again, it has to be genuine.
Disclaimer.- Guys this is and old post that was buried in one of the seduction forums at the time, I used this method with a girl that goes by Kellie flash friend, not to be confused with Kellie the married woman. Again, soon I will write a tale report of a new girl that I used this method recently with and fell in love with me in 2 weeks.
Kellie flash friend : Ok here’s the deal.. I’ll let you make it up to me. I was hoping to fuck you last night, your dancing always turns me on… Come fuck me tonight.3:51 PM
P.s. Watch this video on the Tao of Steve, 3rd rule:
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