There is no possible way to get good at seduction by avoiding rejection

First, I don’t know anybody that is successful at anything in life from business to any skills, to seduction, that did not fail or got rejected.

Rejection is part of the game, facing your insecurities, dealing with your ego etc…. This is one of the problems i sometimes have with Online guys and guys that are game purist (mystery method), the idea that you are not going to get rejected….

Rejection is not only faced at the opening faces and hook faces, but how many times have you lost a lay (I lost hundreds) cause you did not want to pull the trigger since the interaction was going so good, that you did not want to push it, cause you did not want to face a REJECTION.

I have a wing that is good looking, constantly reads seduction etc… But he sucks cause he is scare of rejection, he totally has approach anxiety and is in denial.

Now, when he usually makes an approach at the point of already reaching the “took to long” that creeps the women out point, he gets rejected, and never ever learns from his rejections… (So he is scare of rejection, yet he usually gets rejected, cause he is not learning).

See, most baseball players hall of famers strike out thousands of time, a .300 is considered a good batting average in Baseball for example.

A lot of dudes get a girlfriend, or get married cause they do not want to face the constant rejection and blow to your ego that pick up involves…

Now, I also blame some Pick up coaches that probably indirectly make it seem like they never ever get rejected, they are full of shit, no matter how good your game is, you will always get rejected.

Pick up has an element of rejection, no matter the method, the experience, the looks etc… Even Brad Pitt gets rejected.

Green/likes you already/receptive/ikes you and want you= do not mess it up, push the interaction forward

Yellow/neutral/need more info/not sure= polarize by displaying your attractive personality to green or red

Red/does not like you/has a man/ not interested= get the fuck out asap

A lot of you need to go out and get rejected, get that first rejection out of the way and you will feel better and some of you need to go ahead and do some approach anxiety drills (I personally like good looking loser approach anxiety drills.

Most approach anxiety is translated “I do not want to be embarrassed by being rejected in public”. Get over that shit!

There are some tricks to be cool with rejection:

1.- After getting rejected act happy like nothing happened, in clubs I move away and keep dancing like nothing happened, lip sing (even if you do not know the song, just pretend to know it and lip sing), get another girl and make sure the girl that rejected me sees me with the other girl and how the other girl is having so much fun with me= greatest feeling in the world, try it!.

2.- If is super bad and embarrassing (go to another venue or if in day game walk to another spot).

3.- Have a hub (group of male or female friends you can go back to recharge when things go wrong or interactions end).

4.- Go to a totally different area of the club.

5.- Force approach invites/hoover/body rocking and the likes which minimize rejection or the look of it…

6.- Fight back if is an embarrassing blow out (unusual), =”haha, drop the act, you are not impressing anybody”, “don’t embarrass me in front of my friends… Do you know who i am, you are done in this town” (a bit of fake angry), “you are not even my type I was just being friendly”

I also recommend to get rid of approach anxiety via day game (cause that is how i got started), or street game at night but not inside night club (unless a super massive ultra club and even then i still favor day game to get rid of it).

A really good seducer lays 1 in 10, some 1 in 5 ( I am personally at 1 in 5 now) but 1 in 10 is excellent… Now, I have never seen any of my wings struggling even make 5 approaches???? so how are they going to get laid? They do get laid by doing the 10 approaches in 5 times they go out, but think about it, what would happen if they just simply approach more and get rejected a bit more? get me?.

Embrace rejection, everybody gets rejected advance guys get rejected more subtle and it does not really look like a rejection, but they get rejected…. I am yet to meet a dude that is good with women and does not get rejected.Again, rejection is good as long as you are learning from your rejections.

Now do not get rejected by yourself between the ears, prior to approaching. Some of you go into the interaction already predicting a rejection, women will feel what you feel, so go in with 100% intent.

In closing, play to win, burn the interaction to the ground, fuck phone numbers, Fuck second encounters, go for for the win or go home jerk off.

Out!