First what is a pivot:
PIVOT—noun: a woman, usually a friend, used in social situations to help one meet other women. A pivot serves many functions: she provides social proof, she can create jealousy in the target, she can make it easier to open difficult sets, and she can brag about the seducer to his target.
Second, for guys that are thinking “friend zone… what the fuck skills”. No this is not the typical friendzone scenario were women friend zone you cause of mistakes or you not making a move or no sexual attraction. If you are dealing with any of that I show you how to get out in this old blog named how to get out of the friend zone.
So guys sometimes I have different pivots, which of course, so far has never really worked out for me, but is not really pivots is just female club friends….
Usually what happens is that i open up to them after a while, (about the blog, youtube, community)…. On purpose to friendzone myself, cause I want to make things clear as water. The reason I do this is cause I have a rule of not club regulars/club rats (girls that constant frequent clubs).
Recently, I have been hanging out with a fitness instructor, club regular, dancer… Really hot, but I never saw her sexually, but more as a pivot, cause again I do not like to mess with club regulars (drama usually and sometimes they fuck djs, bouncers etc….)
So finally this weekend I opened up to her about my involvement in the seduction community… Then, something interesting happened, which is crazy, her ras automatically changed, and the same girl that has seen me a million times as a friend, saw me as a sexual target…
She went from a friendship vibe to a sexual vibe… Which made me sooooooooooo uncomfortable since I have always interacted with her as a friend and she has witness me seducing other women in her face… wtf!
Now she is texting me(we never ever texted before) and she is kind of pushing for sex (sub communication) and I keep playing stupid, cause to be honest I don’t know if is a good idea to fuck her (though she is smoking hot).
Me: you and your titles 2:33 PM
hot pivot: Those are ur tiltles….i have never used them b4 2:34 PM
hot pivot: Friend zone….sexual vibes….club regular…. 2:34 PM
Me: women taught me not to be this calculated 2:35 PM
Me: you are so calculated 2:35 PM
Me: women taught me no to pressure them 2:35 PM
Me: you are full of pressure, i don’t know whatever makes you happy (her name) 2:35 PM
hot pivot: Haha 2:35 PM
Me: jesus 2:36 PM
hot pivot: Told u i was not typical 2:36 PM
Me: i feel like i am being sold real estate 2:36 PM
hot pivot: Nah…. 2:36 PM
Me: and i am the realtor lol 2:36 PM
hot pivot: Here it is… 2:36 PM
Me: women are suppose to take the feminine role 2:36 PM
Me: you are taking a masculine role 2:36 PM
Me: chill my luv 2:36 PM
Me: my dear (her name) 2:37 PM
Me: to the i 2:37 PM
hot pivot: If u are not interested….then i leave it be…its simple 2:37 PM
hot pivot: I am aggressive….yes….but submissive as well. 2:39 PM
Me: i know 2:39 PM
hot pivot: U have been sending me mixed signal….and i dont want to get the wrong idea… 2:40 PM
hot pivot: To be honest…i feel bad that i made u uncomfortable….and i am sorry 2:40 PM
Me: nothing to apologize for (her name) 2:41 PM
Me: you are a lot of fun 2:41 PM
Me: and i am glad i met you and i mean that 2:41 PM
Me: and i feel so lucky than one of the hottest girl and a fitness instructor flirt with a dude like me haha 2:42 PM
Me: blushing 2:42 PM
Me: 🙂 2:42 PM
hot pivot: I wont be sexual with u next time….but can be still dance? 2:46 PM
Me: you can be sexual and you can still dance and you can do whatever you want(her name) don’t be calculated 2:47 PM
Me: is better that way 2:47 PM
hot pivot: Making people uncomfortable is not my forte 2:48 PM
hot pivot: Its not calculated….its being respectful 2:48 PM
hot pivot: I am a respectful person. 2:49 PM
1.-I meet an attractive girl, for whatever reason the seduction fails or I friend zone myself cause I don’t like club regulars or club rats or they friend zone me (unusual), so I take this opportunity to try pivot stuff.
2.- We develop a very light superficial friendship.
3.- I introduce them to guys and girls but mainly guys and talk good to the guys about her in front of her, then I leave them talking to each other, therefore I leave them isolated… I am suspecting that i totally disqualify myself and i show no jealousy which they may find attractive.
4.- I leave and do my thing, periodically come back as a hub (a hub is when you have a group static and you go get other women when things go wrong and/or interactions end, you come back to the hub to recharge).
5.- I tell them I am in the seduction community. (Usually as a way to use them on my youtube for dancing videos)
6.-With time they start liking me and sexual tension gets stronger.
7.- We end up messing around or having sex usually them doing the chasing.
^I have seen this enough (field tested multiple times) to have confidence to offer it as a method with some women were for whatever reason you missed the window of opportunity, or they went cold.
P.S> Pivots are a waste of time for cold approach, it does not work at all for me other than a long way to sleep with women that friend zone you/you friend zone them, (maybe I am doing it wrong), but if you take these actions with girls you meet that went cold you could fuck them the long way. Of course you have to be attractive (look good, dress nice, confidence).
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