My 2017 Seduction Epiphanies (all the stuff I learned this year)

First what is an ephyphany

epiphany:

– It will take you at least a year to get your game FULLY BACK after a break from game or mono relationship. After coming back from my almost a year monogamous relationship my game suffer tremendously. (Yes just in one year there were multiple changes in society that woow me, specially in the area where I game).

– You will totally rationalize your current relationship, game, life stage etc… When I was with my 10 year main I thought live in open relationship was the best, when I took a month off from women after my year mono relationship break up, I thought being alone is the best, when I had a lot of friends with benefits, I thought having friends with benefit was the best, now that I am in the process of another open long term relationship live apart, I am thinking open long term relationship live separate is the best again just lol…

This is what a seducer named Pure Evil had to say about it:

“Rationalizing that your current preferences are whats best for you, from a place of personal confidence in your judgement and evolution, is good stuff. I’d even add in that some degree of delusional confidence in yourself and your decisions at any given moment is a good thing. It’s great to be 110% behind your choices at any given moment, balanced with periods of self-reflection that may act to redirect you in a slightly different direction that you then go after with 110% delusional confidence. Delusional confidence has repeatedly made me money and gotten me work over others, people are drawn to well calibrated delusional confidence like moths to a flame.”

– Screening game is OVER… Look good, minimal game, minimal verbal IS OVER, I don’t know if it will come back or not but 2017 was finally were screeners are done…(go to good looking loser channel and see the last time he made a video)… When I mean they are done, it means, yes they can get laid but not consistently like a year of 2 ago, you can thank the death of clubs and tinder.

– Day game is the least efficient IF you do night game and have a full time job… In my opinion you do night game and you have a biz/job that requires a lot of time of your day, you are way better off doing online game… In 2 months I was able to approach 2 girls via day game, I did not have the circumstances to approach more, therefore killing my practicing and momentum. In other words it will take you too long to find women to practice day game, if, again you have a full time job, or do night game (reasoning is you will wake up late and be tired)… Caveat.- Places, like New York, Lincoln park in Miami Beach, Cali, South Beach, OR YOU HAVE A DOG, you do capoeira etc..  (then disregard).

-Online game should be learned and master (yes you still can game online but with a huge disclaimer).- I was with the against online game crew pro cold approach pick up 100% (go on my archives)… I was the last from all the cold approach guys to try online, By recommendation of some seducers, mainly a seducer that goes by PureEvil,  I reluctantly did it (and did not want to do it), but the online game taught is spam approaching by all the gurus and yes you can get laid by spamming… But is the same as throwing shit against a wall to see what sticks ( that for me is not seduction but hook up), I advocate to learn to SEDUCE (specially using second generation verbals) online… Very difficult to learn but doable and not taught in the community per se but taught by me (soon I will make some tales from online game so you guys can see how I do it). The reason is most club girls are online now and I have definite proof after seeing multiple club girls that are now online and that do not go clubbing anymore.

– Game is HARDER than it has ever been.- This is a fact, I feel sooooo sorry for the new generation of seducers and the general average guy. They have it super super super hard compare to us that started and got the benefits years ago… The reason is social media and tinder (girls getting attention is the equivalent of guys getting sex). Plus most methods that worked back in the days, will not really work today (my wings are proof of this). With that being said there is more resources out there available than ever before (problem is most of it will not get you laid there is over saturation of bad info. I am proof of this learning as a newbie online game). BUT, if you get your game and fundamentals right (with the right material aka right work out routine) you can GET LAID FASTER AND EASIER THAN EVER BEFORE. (The problem is since there is sooooooooo much material which is good, what material is ok, what material is a waste of time TODAY, and the frustration of field testing to find out what works).

– Women in the last couple of years are separating sex from emotion. See back in the days if you fucked a girl they got emotional and invested, in other words they did not separate sex and emotion. Now a days a girl can fuck you just to fuck you (most of you that are new generation probably won’t get what I  am saying and that is fine). This is great news for quick sex/one night stands/single night lays and bad news for relationship maintenance, leverage, investment, rotations.

-Last Minute Resistance.- Is done, no more, adios. I only had 2 girls gave me lmr from numerous new girls I laid last year, the 2 girls that gave me lmr were girls that I KNEW THEIR EXBOYFRIENDS, and were scared of me telling the boyfriends, one of them I betrayed previously(accidentally) and I still fucked them both… Other than that lmr is adios! unless you are making some technical mistakes in your game.(really recommend that you guys read this post to address this issue)

– Good Game > than sexual market value.- yes i am changing my view on this, the reason is I was able to FAKE AND PUMP MY Sexual Market Value with game, in other words if my smv made me a 6 with game/influence/sells you can influence women into believing your smv is a 9, by the time they find out your are inflating your smv your dick is deep inside her pussy walls (I am an old fart so trust me women screen my smv harder than all of you). I did this with a girl that thought i owned a club smh and I have continue to do this with success with multiple women.

– The community of seducers is a dying breed.- Most puas, gurus, forums dying a quick death… Even rsd is almost full blown self help.

– Now a days to get a second encounter with a girl that you have fucked fast to get her in rotation you need to find plausible deniability(and excuse to see her again that leads to a sexual encounter, at least for the second and third encounter). So lets say you go to a club, you seduce a girl then you fuck her… The second time you want to see her now a days vs back in the day, you are better off not scheduling a sexual encounter but an activity that leads to a sexual encounter…. Back in the days it was “come over” now is “lets meet for ________ activity then you fuck her” (again for the second and maybe a 3rd time)

– Dominant sex most be added to your sexual arsenal.- I have had AMAZING SEDUCTION NUCLEAR WEAPON SUCCESS by incorporating Dominance which includes spanking, slapping, choking, pulling hair, throwing her in the bed, tying her up, blind folding them etc…

– Good game with decent looks and decent style > ok game excellent look, money and excellent style (leaving status out).- Again this has change my view from the screening years since right now screening game seems to be on the final legs.

– You never stop learning. It seems like as everything else in life from science, academics, martial arts, you never stop learning seduction, there is no “there is nothing else to learn or say” why? cause society is evolving a lot and at a rapid pace with technology.

-Social Media if done right can help or hurt.- Social media can help tons (snapchat, instagram, facebook) or can totally hurt (in my case it totally hurts to the point i have to change my name and use a fake name but my social media game is beyond pathetic so i don’t use it)… With that being said i have average friends that project high status with soical media.

– Now a days is super hard to get approach invites, and body language reads compared to previous years.- Women in the USA at least, have gotten very sophisticated at not giving you anything, but I believe is mainly cause the down to fuck girls have stop going out much and have move to dating apps, and the girls out go out more to socialize with friends, drink and dance.

-If the girl is into you now a days you may have to buy her a drink to close the deal (as a strategy of course if she is into you, do not be a sucker). Again, since they are socializing usually in groups it is easier to isolate from the group with a drink.

Out…