I usually get women that are dating me to open up and express themselves freely,(if you are a good seducer this should be you). In the process some have confessed how they were about to pass on me, cause they just knew?? (more on this in a minute).
If you meet or interact with some of the best seducers in the world (we all get together in really private groups and forums, if you do not know, don’t worry, once you are really good they will contact you), you will realize that some have or are experiencing similar issues.
So you were an above average dude, all of a sudden you get into self-help including seduction (no the nerd shit, the pimp type shit). So, You get your wardrobe in order, you start learning theory on what is attractive, what behaviors give you the highest probability of success, you hit the gym hard, you become a sexual threat, you are very charismatic, you start getting women, women give you the eye everywhere you go, women flirt with you every where you go, you feel like a mini celebrity…
All of a sudden you meet a cool hottie, she is into you, and you are into her, based on experience you know she wants you, you been there before… BUT BUT BUT! She starts behaving incongruent, in other words she start acting like she wants you but she can’t subcommunication, and no, is not a shit test, and yes she is sexually available, and yes she likes you…But fuck, you cannot get around wtf is happening, your game is on point, everything you are doing is A+++, you would bet your balls that she likes you and she is into you…. But fuck fuck fuck wtf, is going on??? What did I do wrong??
She is flaky, she keeps acting incongruent… And your head is about to explode figuring out wtf did I do wrong….Skills get to the point? She is disqualifying herself cause you are toooooooooooooo ATTRACTIVE, yep you heard that right.. In her head you are just too much and she thinks you are unattainable and she knows you are a different specie and she will get attached and get her feelings crushed since she sees the potential to fall in love with a seducer.
Now let say you are super persuasive like I am and you get around all of the above and you manage to get her…All of the sudden, you fuck her, she is such a cool girl to be with, you two get along fine, she is awesome..
However, when you are apart, she brings drama for no reason, she acts irrational, she explodes and when you try to talk (phone /text) as an adult she is acting crazy ( but you know she is not a drama girl and she is cool), Again, she is disqualifying herself cause she is falling for you too fast and she has no control.
So here are some tried solutions that don’t work:
Be right back, dumb down your game, problem is you can’t she will see through that. In other words no matter how dumb you are or try to be, a cool dude is a cool dude… No matter how nerdy Channing Tamtum pretends to be, he is still a massive pussy moisturizer, get me?
Brb play more % to provider role, you can’t she will see through that… No matter how much I “pretend to come across as a provider” you can not put lipstick on a pig, is still a pig. It just does not work…
Unfortunately the 3 answers to this is to prove her wrong by playing more of an attainable exclusive boyfriend role
And/or
screen her out
And/or
Bait and switch
Out!
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