Sorry guys for the long absence (break up with the main of 10 years) but ,now I am back with more game than ever and tons and tons of insights.
As a pay back for my retarded absence, I will give you one of the most important posts that will directly sky rocket your game. If you go or plan to go to a club this will be one of the most important pieces of information you will ever read and will help you become more efficient and structure your night/game based on these FACTS.
It is important to be efficient for minimizing effort and maximizing success in all aspects of life, but specially in club game.
Club dynamics is club atmosphere and behavior. Most clubs have an arrival time, a warm up time, a party time, a hooking up time and a departure time. I am going to talk about my personal experiences here in South Florida; you may have to do your own personal observations based on my system, depending on when the clubs open and close in your area or country. I am going to talk about South Florida clubs specifically since is were I have party for the most part of my life. Caveat, I have used the same system when traveling out of the country and it works.
Arrival time
The arrival time is anywhere between 10:30 to 12:30. The clubs usually open at 10 pm and close at 4 or 5 am. If you arrive at the club between 10:30 and 11, the club is going to be kind of empty. Around 11 to 12 in my experience a lot of hot girls arrive, sometimes more girls than guys or pretty even in numbers. The problem is that most girls at that time are kind of shy, self-conscious, and getting loosened up by getting drinks and talking among each other. As I said, there are an equal number of girls and guys, or more girls than guys, the bitch shield is low or none, but the problem is they are not warmed up yet. As well, the clubbing atmosphere is cold—no guys are approaching or opening girls. This is a good time, if you are a good dancer, to dance, get in state, or be social talking to your wing, and get some momentum. Do not focus on negativity or complaints about the place. Some women will give you proximity or open you, but sometimes they just want to be warmed up, not ready to hook up fully. You may hook up sometimes. The problem is that since there are no guys or hardly any guys, if you get rejected, pretty much every girl will see it, since there are fifty girls on the dance floor and no guys.
Warm-up time
Around 12 to 12:30 people pretty much warm up, girls and guys get some drinks in their system and alcohol kicks in, and people are not as self-conscious as at the arrival time. Girls have danced a bit among themselves, in addition to which they have gotten acquainted and comfortable with the venue. The music is generally better, guys are starting to approach, the bitch shield goes from low to medium level, as they are getting some guys’ attention, but most of those guys have no game, or have creeped them out. Now the club is starting to be alive. You can feel the club vibe.
Pick-up time
Pick-up time is from 12:30 am to 2 am. This is where all the aggressive guys and losers start dancing with the girls, and little by little the bitch shield starts going up and up to almost peak level, since guys are creeping them out, parking, approaching the wrong way, etc… Now a lot of women start thinking they are all that since they are getting approached or getting the vibe from guys in the club that they are wanted. You need to differentiate yourself from every other loser so you can open them, because now in the girls’ eyes every guy is pretty much the same when it comes to game. There will be about a five-to-three ratio between guys and girls, with of course “five” referring to the guys. Most really hot girls will get out off the dance floor, go to the stage, or the stage or side bar of the clubs, or they are being gamed by guys.
Caveman time [Caveman, verb: to directly and aggressively escalate physical contact, and progress toward sex, with a consenting woman; predicated on the idea that early human beings did not use intelligence and words but instinct and strength to mate. Also: to go caveman.] At 2 am there will be around a five to two ratio of guys per girl and there will be more guys per girl as the night progresses. These girls, if gamed right, may be Down to fuck and a single night lay or blow job. They have been drinking, they are not self-conscious in most cases, their friends have hooked up, or they are waiting for the right dude. On the flip side, some of them may have been with a guy with no game, or they may be pissed off because of so many guys creeping them out. With that being said, I have been able to pick up even ten minutes before the club closes after horrible nights when I got rejected, or I fucked up in my game—but do you think I give a fuck? Remember, all you need is one girl for a single night lay. Keep that in mind—you never know where the night will take you.
Here is a video with Jay z (one of the baddest players in the world) were he make the same points I am making, and my book sections are based on his song “do it again” which I considered the skills anthem:
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Nice tips Skills! I find the club dynamics very similar here in NYC. Even if you have a “bad” night, there is always a chance to take a girl home if you stick it though the end with attrition game.
I’ve also noticed that in the high-end clubs where there are a lot of barriers to entry, the women don’t really have bitch shields because they already assume you are high status if you were able to get in the club. I’ve been social proofing these venues and bringing hot girls in to make it much easier for me.
I do not recommend high end venues, i am working on a post breaking down why high end venues are not efficient aka not conductive to pipi in vagina as much vs regular clubs… Of course i get laid and have gotten laid in high end, but again not efficient… Post on that on the works…
What’s your experience in places that play reggae dancehall music?
reggae music is sexually charged and the way you dance reggaee is conductive to escalation and sexual arousal… So i approve of reggae…
Hey Skills,
Maybe you can confirm this. But from personal experience black chicks seem to be the easiest to grind and escalate with followed by latinas then girls who will grind with anyone. For some reason white girls are the toughest to dance with. Can you confirm?
This is semi legit, the problem with white girls is that 95% of them do not know how to dance and/or relax, they are too much in their heads, need alcohol, and think dancing means hooking up… Black and latina girls are more fun both in the bed and on the dance floor, i still prefer white girls cause they are the hottest girls in my opinion and the more sexually open.
That I agree with. Unless a white girl has had dance training or grew up in an black/latin populated area she’s doesn’t know how to move. Then they only dance with you when very drunk otherwise turn you down for trying hook up which is ironic. It’s more likely to happen when drunk. For you that’s good cause in one of your videos you mention the benefits of a girl who can’t dance that well. right? I’d rather a girl who can move on the dance floor. Of course this isn’t applying to all Latinas and blacks, just in the context of the nightlife. Add Caribbean girls to this, lol.
The last 10 years I really only go for white girls, my ex main was white…good game works regardless of race
That is true about good game, no argument here. Just that where I am, white girls are very clickish. Blacks/Latinas/caribbeans that dance well are more open to dance with others most of the time. I know your against it but recently I tried the approach from behind just for giggles and it worked well. May have just been that night, lol.
In the book i said that approaching from behind works with younger crowd 16-21, and with the music booty, hip hop, reggetton and the likes… Everything works, just some stuff give you bigger probability of opening..