Cold approach pick up part 3

Before reading this post I really encourage you to get caught up in part 1 and part 2

In part 3 we are going to discuss  the economic concept of Absolute advantage, and how it relates to pick up, but first lets’ find out what is absolute advantage:

In economics, the principle of absolute advantage refers to the ability of a party (an individual, or firm, or country) to produce more number of a good product or service than competitors, using the same amount of resources.Adam Smith first described the principle of absolute advantage in the context of international trade, using labor as the only input. Since absolute advantage is determined by a simple comparison of labor productiveness, it is possible for a party to have no absolute advantage in anything;^[1] in that case, according to the theory of absolute advantage, no trade will occur with the other party.^[2] It can be contrasted with the concept of comparative advantage which refers to the ability to produce specific goods at a lower opportunity cost.

 

For example, lets’ say to produce 1 pound of sugar it cost the country of Cuba.- 5 cents (in before someone thinks I am from Cuba, I AM NOT)

Now to produce the same pound of sugar it cost United States of America (labor, packing etc…).- $5 dollars

Cont. the above point lets say in the United States to produce 1 pound of High corn Syrup.- It cost United States 5 cents 

But to produce that high corn syrup it would cost cuba $5 dollars.

It would be cheaper and more profitable for United States to focus production on high corn syrup and import the sugar, and to Cuba to produce the sugar and import the high corn syrup

So how does this relate to pick up.-

I did all types of game.- Online, day game, street game night game, social circle, dance floor game.

After trying all of these styles of game, the best efficiency, quantity and quality of girls were giving (IN MY CASE), on dance floor game. However, the key word is that I DID, all those games for years (except online, only couple of months). 

It is extremely important from the first day you join the community to START WITH, cold approach.(I think that is why gurus such as “pureevil” get mad at other coaches, not cause they are bad coaches but because of the backward rationalizing of a Thrill of the chase seducer or Pleasure of sex seducer which may prevent the brand new guy, to start from the get go with cold approach pick up so they can get rid of approach anxiety, for example). I will be repetitive, but starting or making part of all other games, cold approach from the start if you are a beginner is MANDATORY AKA A MUST.

Now here is were I am going to go against pureevil but at the same time kind of agree with him in certain situations (in fairness I think he is talking about people starting up for the fundamentals).- Lets take a sample of these seducers (just for illustration) and we are going to make assumptions and take 2 different seducers of the same niche.- so I am going to pick Newman aka Irish asshole (social circle game), O (social circle game), kant (online game and now day game) and dude (online game). (again a bit of assumptions for sample purposes)

Case #1.- Dude, lets ASSUME, is relatively easy for dude vs. other gamers to meet and fuck above average to high quality girls online, get a rotation and get a main, AND HE IS TRULY HAPPY with the results, key word he is really happy with the lifestyle and not just an excuse/cope out. For him this may be his absolute advantage when it comes to pick up. For him to start cold approaching and get truly good at cold approach pick up may be like Cuba trying to develop a technology to extract petroleum just because, it may be a waste of time and resources to get a limited profit.

Case #2.- Kant.- This is an interesting case study, cause this player is as successful if not more successful than dude doing online game, however, extremely unhappy with the QUALITY of the girls, he is getting. So in this case though it seems there is an Absolute advantage, there is not, cause is perceived success and not real success based on the seducer OWN standards. In this case it is important to branch out and learn and become efficient at cold approach, even if there is a temporary set back, get me?

Case # 3.- Lets say 0, get most of his lays via Social circle game and he is HAPPY, with the results vs. other games, maybe got a girlfriend out of it (more on this later). At this point this is an absolute advantage, to break up with his girlfriend, to do cold approach and accumulate numbers for street pros would be Idiotic. (again more on this later in the post).

Case #4.- Newman aka Irish asshole, let say the dude is in a band, and get most of his girls via social circle, but he is not happy or satisfied with the sex life, quality of girls etc… In this case there is not an absolute advantage and it would be more beneficial to maybe take a TEMPORARY perceived set back to develop other types of game, till he finds the NICHE that gives the absolute advantage.

Now, lets talk about relationships and when do you have an absolute advantage:

I will Illustrate when there is an Absolute advantage to be exclusive ( I really doubt a player with 100 plus lays could go completely mono, but that is my theory, so I will go with Exclusive)

For this I will illustrate case sample, Lets’ say you have a main girl, that to your standards and your pipi, makes you truly happy for a multitude of your personal reasons.

Lets say you played the field for years, and you have a harem/rotation of women, imagine that you rather spend more time with that main/game changer girl vs. the rotation.

Lets say you have other missions in life and your time is very valuable and limited in how you spend it with women since you are super busy with other stuff to make your life/lifestyle awesome.

In this case since your time is so limited you may have an absolute advantage getting rid of the rotation and spent that limited time with your main.(even if temporary if situation changes adapt accordingly and re-built another rotation)

So in conclusion see in your life were do you have an absolute advantage, either game style wise, in your relationship,  in your lifestyle etc…