First, I wanted to see the movie 50 Shades Of Grey with my main on Valentines, (me trying to be cute). She ended up going with female co-workers to see that movie(ha! lucky me). After the movie, she told me the movie sucked, and that the dude was a creeper, jealous, overprotective, needy, beta and how she gets me and appreciates me more than ever and how I am always right.She fucked me that night like she has not had sex in 5 years.(she never read the book or was interested in the book, I think I have created a monster with my fixer upper game).
I got a say between the movie and the book, I did not like the book, I thought it was weak… Now the movie was good as long as you look at it from a seducer point of view otherwise the movie sucked.
So the dude “Grey” has the looks, money, status, right of the back (not much to elaborate). He dresses awesome, nice suits, lots of v neck type shirts, when he is casual, about the recommended 10-12% body fat (though my main did not like his body). I really loved his body language and his sexual type vibe(his eye contact was amazing). Now, unlike the book, were i was pissed with the dude cause he gave the girl a computer, trips, a car etc…. I was more forgiving in the movie, cause in the movie is coming from the right place, in other words he is not trying to impress her, use it as a tool to get an outcome, or buy her. It comes from a genuine place, no different that when I bought my main a cell phone or a watch (in comparison the dude is a billionaire so a cell for me is a car for him). Plus, this happened after he had already fucked her, and she was super invested in the dude.
The other thing I was impressed with which I do a lot and is a lot of take aways ( I do this pre-sex, I also do this in dance floor game). In other words you amp up sexual tension, anticipation, wanting, to a high level and then you go meh, take it away, leaving her wanting for more (this causes is a mind fuck of her wanted to see you and for you to conclude what you started).
One thing important in the movie are the boundaries and the early relationship frame, it totally matches my experience. This is me and I am different, this is the type the relationship we are going to have, are you in or are you out?. I will give Grey an inconclusive grade cause on one hand he got pretty much what he wanted, but on the other hand the putting it in writing I thought was kind of weak. I am a big believe in gaming the girl to make it her idea, her wanting to do it, leading your girl to the water. But, on the other hand the way he handle her objections were ok, and it may apply more for more complicated things such as pre-nups and co-habitation agreements etc… But again I would have handled it better. My whole game has been to get women programmed to do what i want without they even knowing it was happening (sometimes they get periodically wake ups by friend or family, then I re-programmed them again).
Also, some weak shit, like trying to control the girl, showing up unannounced(creeper territory), jealousy (what blackdragon calls needy alpha), onitis and a lot of lack of calibration.
Another type dude that can get a girl, but can not keep a girl for more than 2 seconds, even with all the billions.
With that being said, I think if you are a seducer, and you go to see the movie from a seduction perspective, is worth seeing it, if you are going with the perspective of “I want to see a good movie” is crap.
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