A cockblock is a slang term for an intentional, or sometimes unintentional action that serves to prevent someone from having sexual intercourse with a partner.[1][2]
Such behavior is often motivated by jealousy, or competitiveness, although it is sometimes accidental, or inadvertent. A cockblock, or cockblocker, is a person who engages in such obstruction or intervention.[3][4]
Social research has documented norms among male peer groups that view “cock block” behavior as negative, which may make men less likely to intervene as bystanders in situations of interpersonal violence.[5][6] The terms appears to date at least to 1972, when Edith Folb documented its use by urban black teenagers.
So what is the right way to deal with the cockblock? To Befriend: tr.v. be·friend·ed, be·friend·ing, be·friends
Definition: To behave as a friend to.
You be friend in dance floor game by dancing minimally with everybody or/and the potential cock blocks till you get to the hook point, but the vibe will be friend to friend. When you engage with the target, the vibe will be man to woman (sexual sub communication, tons of compliance and escalation). This is the absolute the best way to deal with the cock block.
If you are not doing dance floor game, and you are doing regular game or club game, then you engage her, and show the cock block that you are a cool dude, not creepy, and not clingy, simple. Lets’ say you are talking to a hottie and the friend is coming to get her, you could get in front of her with you shake hand out and say hi! i am skills i just met your friend Laura she is really cool! and then you could cont. with the bluff, for example, how you girls know each other blah blah blah, and engage her minimally. Here is the problem sometimes guys confuse cock block with rescuer, there is a huge different between cock blocker and rescuer. A rescuer is a girl that get ultra super sophisticated signs to be rescued from the target, but in your eyes she is the cock block. Sometimes the rescuer will get an eye signal, head gesture, or just by the rescuer looking at her body language will know if she is not into the guy or not and take her away. I hate sounding arrogant but if you know the girl is into you, you will hardly ever get cock block, unless her friend is a jealous miserable bitch, or she is kind of drunk. Warped mindless has a theory to make her friends like you sexually, i don’t necessarily agree but that is another theory and it does work, i just don’t like wasting time doing that.
Trouble shooting: Be careful if the cock block you are be friending is fat and/or ugly. Cause the Target will say to herself ” piggy does not get attention from guys or get any guys, let me pass this dude to her”. You do not want that so you got to be aware of body language and dynamics.
A cock block could be a dude: You have to be cool, be friend him, show no jealousy, and you need to do calibrated body positioning with the target. Remember guys are territorial. Never ever fight or do the silly alpha male of the group tactics(the exception is if the dude is not part of the group, then yes amog) remember we have an abundance of women(or an abundance mentality if you don’t have women). Every girl is replaceable and disposable, we do not fight or compete for women, if you do not have abundance now, put it on your credit card as future abundance.
Now here is a seducer by the name of Pumpington (the pump master) and what he does, i do not necessarily agree with it, but it seems to work for him and i can see it working on the field:
hit on the fatty/ugly first, then move to target after, ignore the target, escalate on the ugly, then pawn her and move to target, you will get better responses from the fattie, if a fattie is giving you problems but you have compliance from her, put your arm around her lower back and place your hand on her side, right above her hip touching her hip, right on her fat, as soon as your hand is resting there, she can feel that you can feel her fat, this will make her feel insecure, you will be giving her positive attention, while at the same time making her feel insecure since she knows you can feel her fatness, this will often change her tune into trying to impress you, instead of trying to cockblock you (that or she will move your hand cause she feels uncomfortable with you feeling and knowing she is fat, it just reminds her of her fatness), it is better to just suck it up and hit on the fatty, then keep switching interest from the target to the fatty back and fourth, two girls competing to win you over is better then one girl interested and another one cock blockingwhen handling groups, you really got two choices, win the group, ignore the target, move to target after winning group, so the group co-operates with you, and guides your cock instead of blocking i focus on target, not a shred of attention to obstacles, lock your target in physically immediately so that the friend can’t lock her in and move her (put your arms around her, or hug her, get close and physical), don’t acknowledge they even exist to the point it is so awkward for them to even be around they just leave you be, be persistent and block them out with body language, if a girl starts causing trouble and you have the target locked in physically, first try to get your target to help you, if she won’t go against her friend, just give out commands, such as,-STOP COCK BLOCKING
-DON’T COCK BLOCK YOUR FRIEND
-THIS IS MY GIRL, GET YOUR OWN
-HEY!, WHAT ARE YOU DOING, NO TOUCHYmake sure these come off as intimidating and dominant, but after shouting or doing this, do something friendly to relieve the tension a bit, (make a joke or a light hearted comment after doing these so you don’t seem like such a dick and it turns into something fun for the target, rather then something serious and demeaning to her friend you want her to think you are a dominant and intimidating confident guy, but you are just joking around and tooling her friend a bit)-STOP COCK BLOCKING (god stop being such a good friend, protecting your friend from terrible scum bags like me)
-DON’T COCK BLOCK YOUR FRIEND (she is never going to find the love of her life if you ruin her wedding before it happens, you can be our flower girl)
-THIS IS MY GIRL GET YOUR OWN (there is a cute girl over there, go make some friends, you seem friendly and cool)
-HEY!, WHAT ARE YOU DOING, NO TOUCHY (you seem really affectionate but don’t try to get her to cheat, we are getting married)make sure the original commands, are said, loudly with dominance and authority as commands, (basically yell and scare her), then the take aways say them in a friendly nice guy tone that shows your just kidding, basically you want to scare her enough so she backs away and can’t do shit, but at the same time show the target you are not serious and are just kidding around (you need confidence to pull this off well)
Listen Skills, you obviously SHOULD not talk again with these dick PUAs. You saw what happened recently on Sedfast. Silvertree banned TWO IP addresses of people who did not do so many bad things….and don’t tell me you like Gunwitch who is a regular there….I know guys in my own field who are much better than him.
So, man, you’d better leave these people because they are absolutely neurotic the way they teach PU. And for lovergirl….Silvertree banned her while he was saying that she is “number 1 poster”….come on: I am not a PUAhate member but I see the lack of fairness…. since masf 1 has closed, there will not be a second mast….and Mystery and DYD have almost “retired”…trust me: I am 45 years old and I know that PU is not Sedfast….
K thanks!